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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!
Vendors I Love: PLUME and FLOURISH
I first met Caroline at the Whitney Museum. We worked on events together, but I had no idea that she was so talented in calligraphy. I saw her place cards first hand, and then I just started stalking on social media. Without further ado, let’s shine some well deserved light onto Caroline David from PLUME & FLOURISH!
Vendors I Love: JOSIE MICHELLE EVENTS
I met Michelle Peralta at an industry event in 2019. I love that she and her team are not only super calm and organized, but they are all about supporting others and are total team players. Without further ado, I am so excited to shine some very well deserved attention onto JOSIE MICHELLE EVENTS.
How to be a Zen Bride or Groom
The wedding planning process may be an emotional rollercoaster. Therefore it’s even more important to be a Zen Bride or Groom. Finding calm to better handle the ups and down you may experience. Here’s now you can become the queen or king of calm in five easy steps.
Why Hire a Professional Officiant?
Ask any wedding planner, photographer, or DJ whether they prefer to work with a family friend or a professional officiant and they will tell you the same thing: definitely hire a professional.
Here’s why.
Vendors I Love: JASON MITCHELL KAHN
I met Jason a few years ago working on a micro wedding at Wythe Hotel. As great planners do, he kept all the plates spinning in the air, as he moved gracefully between the couple, the hotel staff and the guests. Without further ado, I’d love to shine a big ol’ spotlight on JASON MITCHELL KAHN!
Vendors I Love: DJ MARCUS HO
I met Marcus working on a wedding in Brooklyn a few months ago. I really appreciated his energy and his willingness to collaborate. And his selections for cocktail hour were certainly on point! Without further ado, I’m so excited to shine a little light onto MARCUS HO!
How to be a Zen Bride: PLAN FOR THE FUTURE
Are you ready for the day AFTER your wedding? The wedding is special, but it's only one day. Marriage is hopefully for life. So I invite you to take a pause from planning to prepare for your marriage. I promise that if you know what’s important to you both and feel empowered as a team, you will find Zen and ease as you plan your Big Day.
Wedding Yoga: THE SACRAL CHAKRA
I refer to the chakras regularly in my yoga classes. In fact, they are the foundation of my wedding yoga practice. Yes, they can be a little ‘out there,’ but I have seen some a-ha moments using them with even some of my premarital counseling couples. Today I’m talking about the second chakra - Svadhisthana.
Vendors I Love: DANCE TOGETHER NYC
After a lovely conversation with Simone, we realized that there are so many similarities in what we do even if the medium is different. I am super excited to shine a light on dance teacher extraordinaire, SIMONE ASSBOECK of DANCE TOGETHER NYC.
You’re Engaged! Now what?
Your partner asked a very important question - and you said YES! Once the initial excitement wears off, and you’ve dabbed your tears of joy, it may be unclear what to do next. I guide couples from the “Yes” to the “I Do,” so I suggest you get on the same page with your partner as you prepare for marriage!
Vendors I Love: JUSTIN McCALLUM PHOTOGRAPHY
I worked with Justin on a wedding in 2018. Over the years I have come to adore the authentic joy he brings to his work. I also appreciate his thoughts on making the wedding day and the planning leading up to the Big Day as stress-free as possible. Without further ado, I’d love to shine a mighty bright light onto Justin McCallum!
Vendors I Love: SB BEAUTY
I met Sharon as fellow members of the New York City WIPA chapter, as well as when I occasionally visited her BNI chapter. You could always hear her excitement, passion and skill when she spoke about her business. Without further ado, I’m happy to spotlight, Sharon Becker of SB Beauty!
Wedding Ceremonies: CEREMONY PROGRAMS
One of my Fall couples just reached out to talk about the logistics of their wedding. They wanted to know about the sequence of a ceremony because they are considering adding a Ceremony Program. They wanted to get my thoughts, so here’s what I told them.
Vendors I Love: METROPOLITAN PLAYERS
I met Erin in my local Tuesday’s Together group and share her sentiment about weddings being so special. This is a time where a specific group gathers to support a couple - and that needs to be honored and celebrated! Music has the power to do that! Without further ado, I am excited to shine a light on ERIN COLES of THE METROPOLITAN PLAYERS!
Zen Weddings: Limiting Opinions
Planning a wedding can be both exciting and overwhelming. It will also teach you many important lessons - how to host a major event, who in your life has your back, and the need to limit opinions. The second you share that you’re engaged, there’s a good chance friends and family will offer their thoughts, whether you want to hear it or not.
Guest Post: Prenups Made Easier with Mediation
When we think of two people coming together to become one, our initial images may be poetic. However when you look at the logistics of HOW to do it, things may get a bit more complicated. Enter Alnoor and Ehsan from Venn Meditation.
Wedding Yoga: Partner Yoga on Your Wedding Day
Imagine the morning of your wedding. There may be butterflies in your belly based on the excitment or stress of the day ahead. So you grab your partner, and jump on your yoga mats. After an hour of breathing deeply, and moving with intention, you give each other a kiss and say farewell as you start getting ready. How cool is that?
Vendors I Love: KATE ALISON PHOTOGRAPHY
Kate is all about support and inclusivity in our community. It’s that sense of care and encouragement that ground her photography. Well, that and an eye for vibrant color, amazing creativity and genuine emotions. I am thrilled to shine some well deserved light onto Kate Bancroft-Wells of KATE ALISON PHOTOGRAPHY!
How to Write Your Own Wedding Vows
The expectation of writing memorable vows may scare some couples into abandoning the idea and going the “repeat after me” route. There is no need to get overwhelmed. You and your partner decided you want to write your own vows? Here are 6 tips to writing some meaningful vows to get you started.
Zen Weddings: ENVISION YOUR WEDDING DAY
When I meet with brides & grooms to talk about their wedding ceremony, I ask them to describe their wedding day. While it’s super helpful for me, it’s even more powerful for my couples. It truly allows them to create the full day they want.