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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!
How to Talk about Money in Your Relationship?
Money is the number one reason why people get divorced in this country. It’s such an emotional subject, and most of us are never taught how to handle our money, never mind, discuss it. So, how do you talk about FINANCES relationship?
Gratituesday 9.19.23 - Changes of Season, Changes of Wardrobe
It’s finally starting to get cooler here in New York. It’s time to bring out the sweatshirts and sweaters. I’d like to be more intentional as the season changes. Care to join me? Let’s create some weekly lists. I’ll go first.
Gratituesday 9.5.23 - Out of Focus
I’m not sure why, but I’ve been a little out of focus lately. I am a person who values productivity. However, I need to also value rest. So before I take a nap, let me do a little reflection and create my weekly lists. If you want to join me, the comment section is always open. Let’s go!
Vendors I Love: JC LEMON PHOTOGRAPHY
I’ve known Jon for many years. I’ve always loved his positive attitude and genuine presence. Jon has an amazing eye for light and color, knows just how to capture a perfect moment. I am super excited to spotlight photographer and photo booth guru, JON LEMON from JC LEMON PHOTOGRAPHY!
The Power of Personalization: Why Writing Your Own Wedding Vows Is a Must
When I talk with couples about ways to make their ceremonies more personal, we talk about their likes and dislikes. Musical choices, a color palette and readings. However, one of the most heartfelt ways to personalize your wedding ceremony is by writing your own vows.
Vendors I Love: ELSIE GOODMAN PHOTOGRAPHY
I met Elsie working on a fun wedding out in Montauk. I loved her positivity and collaborative spirit. And then I was introduced to her work - and just WOW. Does this photographer know how to capture LOVE!
Gratituesday 7.25.23 - Dark & Rainy
As I take a pause and look out the window, I really don’t know what time it is. I mean it’s the middle of the day, but the sky is dark and I’m hit with a cool breeze that feels like rain.
Vendors I Love: SERIF & SPICE
I met Giuliana at two recent events sponsored by the local the Rising Tide Society. After 2 and a half years of virtual events, it’s great to finally get back together in person. Giuliana doesn’t toot her own horn, so I’m going to do it for her. Introducing the passionate and talented Giuliana LaMantia of SERIF & SPICE.
Wedding Yoga: Reducing Stress and Nervousness Before Your Big Day
Your wedding day is a joyous occasion, but it's natural to feel a mix of excitement and nervousness leading up to the big day. Here are 5 ways yoga can help marriers reduce stress, manage nervousness, and embrace a serene state of mind before walking down the aisle.
Gratituesday 6.27.23 - Falling Apart
I’ve had thoughts lately about things falling apart. Sure, I may have a mild case of plantar fasciitis and my stomach has been bothering me and let’s not get into the hot flashes. But are things falling apart? No, not really.
PM Counseling: Getting Out What you Put In
I’ve asked a number of my premarital counseling couples this week, “Are you getting out of the relationship, what you put into the relationship?” In the ROLES in the MARRIAGE conversation, we take a deeper dive into the specifics of what each partner does - and the desire for EQUALITY usually comes up.
Gratituesday 5.9.23 - Pushing Through the Negativity
It’s been a long few days, and I’m tired. I’ve been a little more negative than usual, so taking a moment to reflect on the positive has been a challenge. But I’m proud to say I’m pushing through the negativity. It did take a while, but I did find some positivity. Here are my weekly gratitudes, celebrations and desires.
Vendors I Love: SPN Events
I met Stan and his amazing musicians on a wedding last month. They warmed the rustic space and added a feeling of elegance. Without further ado, I’m beyond thrilled to shine a little light on Stanislav Nikolov and SPN Events.
Vendors I Love: LONG WEEKEND FLORALS
I met Ellen recently on a wonderful wedding in Brooklyn. Her work filled the rustic space and added such warmth. I also loved that once everything was set, she took a quiet moment to take it all in. Super excited to shine some light on Ellen Rothfuss of LONG WEEKEND FLORALS!
The Power of Ritual
As a person who writes and performs wedding ceremonies, I understand the power of ritual. However, I have been talking rituals more and more with my counseling couples. Small gestures incorporated into our daily lives. Why? Because rituals turn the ordinary into something meaningful.
Gratituesday 3.28.23 - Welcome Home!
So, I bought an apartment! Welcome home, you may say. However I purchased my co-op in the beginning of 2019 and after a lengthy renovation process, I moved in at the very end of that year. And now OVER two years later, or over FOUR years from purchase I finally got my Letter of Completion from the city yesterday. Welcome home, indeed!
Vendors I Love: MEGAN & KENNETH
I met Megan & Kenneth working a super fun wedding a few years ago. I appreciate their amazing sensibility to just be there to capture the right image at the right time. I guess it’s helpful that they not only love marriage, but ARE MARRIED. Without further ado, beyond excited to shine some light on MEGAN & KENNETH!
Gratituesday 2.28.23 - There’s Plenty of Time
I know that the phrase, “there aren’t enough hours in the day” is commonly used. However, I’m here to tell you that there is plenty of time! On a daily basis, we need to work smarter and not harder. And if we lift our heads up from our screens, we can get a lot done.
Vendors I Love: NON-TRADITIONAL WEDDING DJs
I met Ben at a super special wedding a few years ago. I really appreciate how Ben and his team view the musical elements of all parts of a wedding and how passionate they are. And they make it easy for couples to work with them. Without further ado, I’m excited to shine a light onto BEN BOYLAN from NON-TRADITIONAL WEDDING DJs!
Vendors I Love: SPEECHLESS MUSIC
Needless to say the musicians or the DJ are super important to the ceremony. We work together to create a vibe, so I was appreciative of Scott’s communication ahead of time, and then the ensemble’s beautiful work on the day. Super excited to shine a little light on SCOTT KULMAN and the musicians with SPEECHLESS MUSIC!