You need an officiant who will listen to your deepest dreams and desires — an officiant who will also be your fiercest advocate leading up to and on the day of your wedding.

Sounds too good to be true? It’s not! I’m Hope Mirlis, a NYC-based Wedding Officiant and Premarital Counselor who guides couples from the “Yes!” to the “I do.” Are you looking for an excellent listener and someone who can create a ceremony you adore (even before you know exactly what you want?) Let’s talk!

The look, sound, and feel of your ceremony doesn’t just set the tone for the day - it has a lasting impact. That’s why I draw upon my theatre and public speaking experience to help you create a ceremony that’s uniquely you. If a highly choreographed procession is what you want, I got you covered. If you need assistance with your vows or reading selections, just say the word. Or if you’re dreaming of getting married on a secluded hotel rooftop and want a ceremony to match, let’s do it!

I am based in Manhattan, however I regularly do weddings in Brooklyn, Long Island, Westchester, the Hudson Valley and New Jersey. Needless to say, I am more than happy to travel wherever your wedding may be around the globe.

My Approach.

I approach the ceremony from a secular/non-denominational place. I truly consider your union the foundation for the wedding ceremony. The ceremony can be as traditional or untraditional as you’d like. Together, we will discuss mood and style, the rituals you want and potential inclusion of family and friends. We can then add in any cultural or religious traditions, if you have them. We will work largely through email or Google Docs to finalize the ceremony.

2025 Elopements (those ceremonies with under 20 guests) range from $575 to 1045, with most couples opting for the $775 package.

Larger weddings range from $1045 to $1600, with most couple choosing the $1450 package.

Fees are determined by the intricacy of your ceremony, your guest count and location. Let’s discuss how I can help you create a vision for your ceremony and perform it with ease and grace. I’m happy to talk through what your ceremony can look like. Everything is customizable!