Hope Mirlis – offering Premarital Counseling in NYC and virtually around the world!

PREMARITAL COUNSELING

Focus on your marriage, not just on the wedding.

 

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I offer premarital counseling in NYC, but I also work with couples virtually anywhere in the world! For my couples in the New York area, I am taking IN-PERSON appointments in Central Harlem and FiDi!

Discussing the Big Issues are not only encouraged, it’s imperative.
And I make it super easy.

Premarital Counseling is a powerful way to strengthen your relationship and create expectations for your marriage.  The future is full of unknowns and our relationships require more than love and good intentions. Unlike couples therapy, which usually tackles a problem in the relationship, premarital counseling aims to prevent potential challenges down the line.

My Approach

Early in my practice, I knew that I needed to be a strong advocate for my couples and their relationships. In 2010, I researched existing premarital counseling programs, and most were based in religion. Since that didn’t really resonate with me, I decided to create my own program. Two years later, I was ready to share the program. And hundreds of couples have gone through it with me ever since.

The premarital counseling program is secular in nature and focuses on what I call The Big Issues – the 9 main causes of divorce in America. If that scares you, we can look at it this way… Let’s talk through the topics that tend to trip couples up and make sure they are as strong as they can be in YOUR relationship. We will take the necessary time to explore the issues that affect your relationship most.

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Beginning with Intention.

While I do not require premarital counseling for the couples I officiate, I HIGHLY encourage it. Some couples approach me to work on current challenges. However, most just want a clean bill of health and new techniques for the toolbox. This will keep the relationship strong as you grow and mature as individuals.

Individual 60-minute sessions are $225, with discounted packages for five and seven sessions.

I’ve helped hundreds of couples strengthen their relationships and plan for the future. Let me be your advocate. I’d love to guide you through the tough conversations that can better prepare you for marriage or a committed relationship. Reach out to schedule a complimentary consultation.

 

Premarital Counseling Group Workshop

Want to prep for your marriage on 2 consecutive Sundays with 3 other couples? We will talk through all of The Big Issues, but leave plenty of time for questions, camaraderie and personally tailored discussions. 

Sundays April 21 & 28
10AM - 3PM in FiDi, NYC
$700/per couple

Have questions or want to reserve your spot in the next workshop? Please let me know.


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“This isn’t easy work to do and you have really put us to task… I know I feel stronger and more intentional about my relationship, and am so grateful for all of the prompts and questions you posed to us. Simply meditating on the things we discussed and the assignments you had us try was enough to really help me find a deeper well of understanding… The words “thank you” aren’t enough… You are a light!””

— John – Brooklyn, NY