Tips for Planning Micro-Weddings

photo by Lauren Spinelli

So you want to get married during a pandemic? Great! #loveisnotcancelled! Many states are limiting the number of people who can gather for the health and safety of all involved. Therefore, couples are forced to wait until restrictions are lifted, elope or plan micro-weddings. Micro-weddings are really the best of both worlds.

Here are 6 things to consider as you plan a smaller scale celebration — without losing any of the magic of your special day. 

1. Select a Great Wedding Venue

A major advantage of a micro-wedding is the abundance of venues available. While large weddings are limited to event spaces that can accommodate a big group, couples planning intimate nuptials usually have their pick of everything from a boutique restaurant, an art gallery, a rooftop restaurant, a sunset cruise, a secret garden or perhaps a private beach in a destination location.

2. Invite Your Closest Friends and Family

One of the trickiest, but most important, aspects of a micro-wedding is only inviting the special people you and your partner must have. Create the invite list together, and be as discerning as possible with who makes the cut!

3. Find the Right Officiant

While it’s always good to find an officiant that resonates with you, it’s especially important for a small wedding as it’s such an intimate affair. The wedding ceremony sets the tone for the rest of the day, so you’ll want to have a professional guide you. Don't forget to discuss the marriage license, as it may be easier to do a quick legal ceremony where you live, if your wedding is out of state or the country.

4. Hire a Photographer

Regardless of how understated you envision your wedding, it’s still a momentous occasion that should be captured by a professional photographer. Take your time searching for the right fit, perusing online portfolios and Instagram, and calling your top picks to get a feel if your personalities mesh and make sure they’re available.

5. Make It Personal

With fewer guests, creating thoughtful touches is more doable. A small guest list allows specialized selections - a special menu, custom cocktails, involved games, or elaborate decorations. This can also include intricate desserts, handwritten invitations, calligraphy place cards, arrangements of hand-picked wildflowers, and anything else that piques your interest.

6. Engage the Services of a Wedding Planner

While it seems like wedding planning for a micro-wedding is easy, there are still elements you may forget or find overwhelming. Especially if you are looking at some of the smaller details, this wedding pro can ensure everything is considered and handled. That way you can release any stress and truly enjoy the day.

Do any of these tips resonate with you? Anything you already have planned? The comment box is open for questions or feel free to reach out if you need additional guidance.