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Desire Wednesday 5.22.19 - Rewriting the Narrative
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Desire Wednesday 5.22.19 - Rewriting the Narrative

Lately, I have been repeating a version of the phrase, "I can't." Sometimes it's "I just can't" other times it's "I can't do it." In any case it's time to rewrite the narrative. Have you ever seen that video where someone talks negatively to their plant? If not, you should look it up.

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Gratitude 5.14.19 - Letting Go
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Gratitude 5.14.19 - Letting Go

With all of the craziness in my life, I have been all about letting go. I had the opportunity to take not one, but TWO aerial yoga classes this week. In both classes, they stressed the idea that "in order to fly, you have to let go." 

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Gratituesday 5.7.19 - Challenges with Goodness
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Gratituesday 5.7.19 - Challenges with Goodness

I have long been a supporter of the 3 Rs - reduce, reuse & recycle, however, there are challenges with goodness. My need/desire of #environmentalism mostly butts up against the ease of disposability, and the high cost of more zero waste options. See there are challenges with goodness? I WANT to do these things, but they take time and money!

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Gratituesday 4.30.19 - Holding Space
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Gratituesday 4.30.19 - Holding Space

As I sip on some leftover matzoh ball soup, I am able to not only warm the belly, but reflect on the last few days. My weekend was FULL of counseling. It was all about holding space. I guided Individual, group AND something new -- a Sibling Counseling session!

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Gratituesday 4.23.19 - Brings Me Joy!
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Gratituesday 4.23.19 - Brings Me Joy!

Spring is finally here. It's my favorite time of the year, so it brings me JOY to see the trees budding, the daffodils and tulips blooming and the sun shining! Today on my walk in SoHo, I noticed gorgeous cherry blossoms as I crossed Spring Street. And others did, too as I saw at least 3 people taking pictures with their phones.

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Gratituesday 4.2.19 - The Universe Provides
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Gratituesday 4.2.19 - The Universe Provides

Not much to report. It's exciting to see Spring arrive here in NY. It's really my favorite time of the year. And I really hope the renewal brings the much needed changes in my life and in my business. I have been surrounded by people "making it happen," and those that exude pure positivity. It's a nice reminder that I what I need most, the universe provides.

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Gratituesday 3.26.19 - Welcome Back!
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Gratituesday 3.26.19 - Welcome Back!

I've taken 2 weeks off my Weekly Lists. So, I give myself a hearty Welcome Back. I am not sure if anyone really noticed, but I just didn't have it in me to post them. I did start them last week, but didn't have the positivity to continue.

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Desire Wednesday - Not So Smart
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Desire Wednesday - Not So Smart

When I left my apartment this morning, I noticed a woman carrying an umbrella. Did I think much about it? No, not really. I briefly questioned the chance of rain, but I did my usual stop at the community compost collection before heading down town. Not so smart.

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Gratituesday 2.12.19 - Walking in the Snow!
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Gratituesday 2.12.19 - Walking in the Snow!

Today is one of those days that you stay inside. And how did I start my day? By walking in the snow! Forecast showed a "wintry mix" with accumulation of 2-4". While all of my appointments changed to phone meetings, I needed to meet a potential painter at my new apartment to get an estimate. So I bundled up, donned my snow boots, pressed play on an old episode of "How I Built This" and started walking.

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Gratituesday 2.5.19 - Discover the Good
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Gratituesday 2.5.19 - Discover the Good

For those of you who may not have been able to read through the cryptic notes and comments over the past few weeks, I am a homeowner again. The process that I experienced in buying an apartment Atlanta versus New York was amazingly different. So while everything was difficult in NY, I am currently trying to discover the good. That also goes for the renovation.

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Gratituesday 1.22.19 - A World of Unknown
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Gratituesday 1.22.19 - A World of Unknown

As I've said lots lately, in living in a World of Unknown. Yes, I've always had lots of flux, but this is ridiculous. I am in the middle of a housing transition and there are regular shifts in my business. Surprisingly enough, I am taking the lack of firm answers and a clear path rather well.

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Gratituesday 1.15.19 - It's Going to Be Okay
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Gratituesday 1.15.19 - It's Going to Be Okay

It's all about perspective. And that good news is that it's going to be okay. I mean, perhaps I just need to repeat the phrase over and over again to believe it. But truthfully most of us are just experiencing first-world problems. We may think that everything is going to shit, but if we look at the details, are they really?

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