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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!

Gratituesday 11.14.23 - Conflict
With all of the armed conflict all around, it may be difficult to get out of bed. Or actually it may be too easy. But I do try to counter all of the negativity with some gratitude. I encourage you to do the same. Feel free to join me, or make some lists just for you.

Vendors I Love: AGENCY 8
I worked with Lizzy on a recent wedding up at Wave Hill in Riverdale. Getting ready early in the day, and then taking hours of photos, dresses and suits are sometimes wrinkled and weary before the ceremony. However, Lizzy and her team took the time to refresh in a way that was so caring. Beyond excited to shine a little light on Lizzy Polden and Agency 8.

Choosing the Perfect Wedding Ceremony Music
As a wedding officiant, I write a wedding ceremonies. So, I certainly consider format and flow. But there’s another component that adds to the vibe to the ceremony. And that’s music. Here are some things to think about when considering your ceremony music.

Gratituesday 10.31.23 - Hey Old Friend
One of my closest friends got married over the weekend. So, I after 11 years, I headed back to the west coast. It gave me a good opportunity to see some other old friends - all from my time in Atlanta. So while my friend circle is rather small, it was a great reminder to make time and connect. Ah, let’s keep the reflection going. Here are my weekly lists.

Desire Wednesday 10.18.23 -

How to Talk about Money in Your Relationship?
Money is the number one reason why people get divorced in this country. It’s such an emotional subject, and most of us are never taught how to handle our money, never mind, discuss it. So, how do you talk about FINANCES relationship?

Gratituesday 9.19.23 - Changes of Season, Changes of Wardrobe
It’s finally starting to get cooler here in New York. It’s time to bring out the sweatshirts and sweaters. I’d like to be more intentional as the season changes. Care to join me? Let’s create some weekly lists. I’ll go first.

Gratituesday 9.5.23 - Out of Focus
I’m not sure why, but I’ve been a little out of focus lately. I am a person who values productivity. However, I need to also value rest. So before I take a nap, let me do a little reflection and create my weekly lists. If you want to join me, the comment section is always open. Let’s go!

Vendors I Love: JC LEMON PHOTOGRAPHY
I’ve known Jon for many years. I’ve always loved his positive attitude and genuine presence. Jon has an amazing eye for light and color, knows just how to capture a perfect moment. I am super excited to spotlight photographer and photo booth guru, JON LEMON from JC LEMON PHOTOGRAPHY!

The Power of Personalization: Why Writing Your Own Wedding Vows Is a Must
When I talk with couples about ways to make their ceremonies more personal, we talk about their likes and dislikes. Musical choices, a color palette and readings. However, one of the most heartfelt ways to personalize your wedding ceremony is by writing your own vows.

Vendors I Love: ELSIE GOODMAN PHOTOGRAPHY
I met Elsie working on a fun wedding out in Montauk. I loved her positivity and collaborative spirit. And then I was introduced to her work - and just WOW. Does this photographer know how to capture LOVE!

Gratituesday 7.25.23 - Dark & Rainy
As I take a pause and look out the window, I really don’t know what time it is. I mean it’s the middle of the day, but the sky is dark and I’m hit with a cool breeze that feels like rain.

Vendors I Love: SERIF & SPICE
I met Giuliana at two recent events sponsored by the local the Rising Tide Society. After 2 and a half years of virtual events, it’s great to finally get back together in person. Giuliana doesn’t toot her own horn, so I’m going to do it for her. Introducing the passionate and talented Giuliana LaMantia of SERIF & SPICE.

Wedding Yoga: Reducing Stress and Nervousness Before Your Big Day
Your wedding day is a joyous occasion, but it's natural to feel a mix of excitement and nervousness leading up to the big day. Here are 5 ways yoga can help marriers reduce stress, manage nervousness, and embrace a serene state of mind before walking down the aisle.

Gratituesday 6.27.23 - Falling Apart
I’ve had thoughts lately about things falling apart. Sure, I may have a mild case of plantar fasciitis and my stomach has been bothering me and let’s not get into the hot flashes. But are things falling apart? No, not really.

PM Counseling: Getting Out What you Put In
I’ve asked a number of my premarital counseling couples this week, “Are you getting out of the relationship, what you put into the relationship?” In the ROLES in the MARRIAGE conversation, we take a deeper dive into the specifics of what each partner does - and the desire for EQUALITY usually comes up.

Gratituesday 5.9.23 - Pushing Through the Negativity
It’s been a long few days, and I’m tired. I’ve been a little more negative than usual, so taking a moment to reflect on the positive has been a challenge. But I’m proud to say I’m pushing through the negativity. It did take a while, but I did find some positivity. Here are my weekly gratitudes, celebrations and desires.

Vendors I Love: SPN Events
I met Stan and his amazing musicians on a wedding last month. They warmed the rustic space and added a feeling of elegance. Without further ado, I’m beyond thrilled to shine a little light on Stanislav Nikolov and SPN Events.

Vendors I Love: LONG WEEKEND FLORALS
I met Ellen recently on a wonderful wedding in Brooklyn. Her work filled the rustic space and added such warmth. I also loved that once everything was set, she took a quiet moment to take it all in. Super excited to shine some light on Ellen Rothfuss of LONG WEEKEND FLORALS!

The Power of Ritual
As a person who writes and performs wedding ceremonies, I understand the power of ritual. However, I have been talking rituals more and more with my counseling couples. Small gestures incorporated into our daily lives. Why? Because rituals turn the ordinary into something meaningful.