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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!

Gratituesday 4.2.24 - Rainy Day Palindrome
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Gratituesday 4.2.24 - Rainy Day Palindrome

So as I walked home in the rain today, I was listening to an episode of Radiolab where they announced that today is the first of quite a few palindrome days this month. It was a replay of an audio recording from Short Cuts on the BBC. It was a piece that plays the same forward and backward. It was about place and home and belonging.

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Vendors I Love: MAYBELLE NYC
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Vendors I Love: MAYBELLE NYC

I met Christine at a recent Rising Tide NYC meeting. She explained what she did and I thought, “that’s so cool!” As someone who values sustainability and reusability I loved how Christine took old dresses and clothing and gave it new life. Without further ado, I am excited to shine a light onto Christine Carlson of MAYBELLE NYC.

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Gratituesday 2.20.24 - Anger Rising
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Gratituesday 2.20.24 - Anger Rising

Years ago when I still choreographing, there was a short dance I created for a musical. I told the dancers to feel this electric energy rising up their bodies and then take over into movement. Today that happened with anger. And just like the dance, it totally took over.

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Vendors I Love - THE HOOK CLUB
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Vendors I Love - THE HOOK CLUB

I met Dan on a wedding I did a few years ago. Thankfully our paths kept crossing at more joyful events. I appreciate his communication leading up to the wedding day, however they have so much skill and love for what they do. Without further ado, I’m happy to shine a little light on Dan Vernam from THE HOOK CLUB.

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Gratituesday 1.16.24 - Brrr, it’s Cold!
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Gratituesday 1.16.24 - Brrr, it’s Cold!

So here in NYC, we have not seen snow in a while. And many of us have been a little annoyed. But this morning, I needed to head out early and there was indeed snow on the ground. I mean this was the first snow fall that we’ve seen in 700 days. Yippee! However that was not my first thought. Rather when seeing the snow I was annoyed. Brrr, it’s cold!

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Gratituesday 12.19.23 - Community
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Gratituesday 12.19.23 - Community

For a long time my desires included a stronger personal and business circle. As an introvert, I will never have a large group of friends. However, I finally feel that there is community around me. The world continues to be a challenging place, but we have to find the joy and embrace the good.

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Gratituesday 11.14.23 - Conflict
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Gratituesday 11.14.23 - Conflict

With all of the armed conflict all around, it may be difficult to get out of bed. Or actually it may be too easy. But I do try to counter all of the negativity with some gratitude. I encourage you to do the same. Feel free to join me, or make some lists just for you.

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Vendors I Love: AGENCY 8
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Vendors I Love: AGENCY 8

I worked with Lizzy on a recent wedding up at Wave Hill in Riverdale. Getting ready early in the day, and then taking hours of photos, dresses and suits are sometimes wrinkled and weary before the ceremony. However, Lizzy and her team took the time to refresh in a way that was so caring. Beyond excited to shine a little light on Lizzy Polden and Agency 8.

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Gratituesday 10.31.23 - Hey Old Friend
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Gratituesday 10.31.23 - Hey Old Friend

One of my closest friends got married over the weekend. So, I after 11 years, I headed back to the west coast. It gave me a good opportunity to see some other old friends - all from my time in Atlanta. So while my friend circle is rather small, it was a great reminder to make time and connect. Ah, let’s keep the reflection going. Here are my weekly lists.

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Gratituesday 9.5.23 - Out of Focus
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Gratituesday 9.5.23 - Out of Focus

I’m not sure why, but I’ve been a little out of focus lately. I am a person who values productivity. However, I need to also value rest. So before I take a nap, let me do a little reflection and create my weekly lists. If you want to join me, the comment section is always open. Let’s go!

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