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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!
Gratituesday 5.28.24 - Daily Rituals
I am currently reading The Power of Ritual by Casper ter Kuile. The days go by so fast, that it’s important to mark the milestones. Ter Kuile really dives in with research and suggestion. There are tons of ways to embrace the sacred and make the moments special.
Gratituesday 4.23.24 - From Slavery to Freedom
The story of Passover is one of secrets and springtime, celebration and of course slavery. Jews were enslaved by the Egyptians and were released from bondage to walk through the dessert to freedom. However there is so much strife in our world. I am processing it all, and trying to make my Passover experience personal for me.
Vendors I Love: MON AMIE EVENTS
I met Mona at a wedding at the Wythe Hotel a few years ago and just loved her vibe. Thankfully our paths have crossed recently. Super excited to shine the light and share the joy of Mona Dehghan of MON AMIE EVENTS!
Vendors I Love: JUDSON RAPPAPORT
I’ve crossed paths with Judson a bunch over the last few years. From Rising Tide NYC to other wedding industry events. I have long been an admirer of her work. Photos that capture the energy of the moment. Like you are peeking in on something special. Super excited to shine a little light onto JUDSON RAPPAPORT.
Gratituesday 4.2.24 - Rainy Day Palindrome
So as I walked home in the rain today, I was listening to an episode of Radiolab where they announced that today is the first of quite a few palindrome days this month. It was a replay of an audio recording from Short Cuts on the BBC. It was a piece that plays the same forward and backward. It was about place and home and belonging.
Vendors I Love: MAYBELLE NYC
I met Christine at a recent Rising Tide NYC meeting. She explained what she did and I thought, “that’s so cool!” As someone who values sustainability and reusability I loved how Christine took old dresses and clothing and gave it new life. Without further ado, I am excited to shine a light onto Christine Carlson of MAYBELLE NYC.
How Do We Manage Our Money?
This is part 2 of a series on money. It’s usually one of the first things we discuss in premarital counseling. A few months ago I wrote a post on talking about money in the relationship. Now is the time to take it to the next step and make some decisions on how to manage your money.
Gratituesday 3.5.24 - In Like a Lion?
Yes, March is supposed to come in like a lion and go out like a lamb. However, we’ve had unseasonably warm days the last few days. This change of season is so confusing.
Gratituesday 2.20.24 - Anger Rising
Years ago when I still choreographing, there was a short dance I created for a musical. I told the dancers to feel this electric energy rising up their bodies and then take over into movement. Today that happened with anger. And just like the dance, it totally took over.
Creating Rituals
We are surrounded by ritual. From our morning routine, to the way we prepare a cup of coffee to saying ‘I love you’ to your partner at the end of every day. However, when I speak to my couples about creating rituals, some look at me with fear or doubt.
Vendors I Love - THE HOOK CLUB
I met Dan on a wedding I did a few years ago. Thankfully our paths kept crossing at more joyful events. I appreciate his communication leading up to the wedding day, however they have so much skill and love for what they do. Without further ado, I’m happy to shine a little light on Dan Vernam from THE HOOK CLUB.
Gratituesday 1.16.24 - Brrr, it’s Cold!
So here in NYC, we have not seen snow in a while. And many of us have been a little annoyed. But this morning, I needed to head out early and there was indeed snow on the ground. I mean this was the first snow fall that we’ve seen in 700 days. Yippee! However that was not my first thought. Rather when seeing the snow I was annoyed. Brrr, it’s cold!
Vendors I Love - ERYC PEREZ DE TAGLE
I had the honor of working with Eryc at a recent wedding at The University Club. When I finally saw images from that day - wow! He captured the energy perfectly. Catching the important moments, but also the small and quiet ones. Super happy to shine a light on ERYC PEREZ DE TAGLE.
Gratituesday 12.19.23 - Community
For a long time my desires included a stronger personal and business circle. As an introvert, I will never have a large group of friends. However, I finally feel that there is community around me. The world continues to be a challenging place, but we have to find the joy and embrace the good.
Let’s Talk About Miracles
Some of you may know that I have been hosting monthly dinner parties in my home all year long. Every month there is a selected topic to guide our conversations as a group. This months conversation is MIRACLES. The real inspiration comes from the Miracle of Light and the story of Chanukah.
Gratituesday 11.28.23 - Happy Gratituesday!
I thought about doing a Thanksgiving post last week to share what I was grateful for, but that didn’t happen. And even today, the gratitudes were the hardest to complete. I need to be better about reflecting on the good. Care to join me?
Gratituesday 11.14.23 - Conflict
With all of the armed conflict all around, it may be difficult to get out of bed. Or actually it may be too easy. But I do try to counter all of the negativity with some gratitude. I encourage you to do the same. Feel free to join me, or make some lists just for you.
Vendors I Love: AGENCY 8
I worked with Lizzy on a recent wedding up at Wave Hill in Riverdale. Getting ready early in the day, and then taking hours of photos, dresses and suits are sometimes wrinkled and weary before the ceremony. However, Lizzy and her team took the time to refresh in a way that was so caring. Beyond excited to shine a little light on Lizzy Polden and Agency 8.
Choosing the Perfect Wedding Ceremony Music
As a wedding officiant, I write a wedding ceremonies. So, I certainly consider format and flow. But there’s another component that adds to the vibe to the ceremony. And that’s music. Here are some things to think about when considering your ceremony music.
Gratituesday 10.31.23 - Hey Old Friend
One of my closest friends got married over the weekend. So, I after 11 years, I headed back to the west coast. It gave me a good opportunity to see some other old friends - all from my time in Atlanta. So while my friend circle is rather small, it was a great reminder to make time and connect. Ah, let’s keep the reflection going. Here are my weekly lists.