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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!

Vendors I Love: PURSLANE
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Vendors I Love: PURSLANE

I’ve worked with Purslane many times over the years. I’ve had the opportunity to try their delicious food at industry events, and I appreciate their dedication to the environment and use of fresh, local ingredients. Without further ado, here’s more from Kendra at PURSLANE!

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Vendors I Love: LAUREN SPINELLI PHOTO CO.
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Vendors I Love: LAUREN SPINELLI PHOTO CO.

I met Lauren a few years ago working on a wedding at in Brooklyn. I loved the way she gives space to her couples. She stands back to see the larger picture so she can focus on the details. While she has an eye for celebration, she also seeks out the quiet moments and captures them with a sense of poetry. Without further ado, I’m proud to shine the spotlight on LAUREN SPINELLI!

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Where to Have Your Micro Wedding: Hudson Valley
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Where to Have Your Micro Wedding: Hudson Valley

Whether it’s an issue of budget, a desire for intimacy, or simply not wanting to fuss over all the grand details, not every couple wants a huge wedding celebration. Welcome to the Micro-wedding! Here are some lovely options for venues offering smaller weddings in the Hudson Valley - Arrow Park, Blue Hill at Stone Barns & St. Hubert’s Lodge.

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Vendors I Love: HUDSON FILMR
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Vendors I Love: HUDSON FILMR

There are so many talented and wonderful professionals in the wedding industry. I’ve worked with quite a few, but there are ALWAYS more. Jason followed me on Instagram, and after looking at his feed, He’s very much in the moment with his couples, and his videos are warm and light. Super excited to shine some light on Jay. Without further ado, here’s JASON ALICEA from HUDSON FILMR.

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Vendors I Love: KRISTY MAY PHOTOGRAPHY
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Vendors I Love: KRISTY MAY PHOTOGRAPHY

I met Kristy a few years ago at a wedding vendor networking event. Even though we’ve yet to work a wedding together, I really love Kristy’s work. She has an amazing eye. And whether shooting in black and white or vibrant color, she always captures the moment. I guess that’s what a background in photojournalism can do. Without further ado, I am so excited to share more from KRISTY MAY!

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Vendors I Love: MAE B FILMS
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Vendors I Love: MAE B FILMS

A planner colleague offered virtual planning as soon as we started quarantine. I saw a videographer on the list of vendors she created that I didn’t know. I decided to reach out to Nikki and say hello. It was clear that she was a passionate filmmaker and that truly reflected in her work. Her short elopement and proposal films are like music videos and they made me smile. I can only imagine the pure joy the couples experience when they watch theirs for the first time. Without further ado, here’s Nikki Miller of Mae B Films!

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Vendors I Love: THE VOW COLLECTIVE

Vendors I Love: THE VOW COLLECTIVE

I met Stacie at a Tuesday Together NYC meeting a few months ago. There was an immediate connection as we talked about the power of words and just how meaningful promises are. Usually I say farewell to my couples at their weddings. That’s when she says hello! I love her outlook on love and commitment, on partnership and longevity. Without further ado, here’s STACIE STINE of THE VOW COLLECTIVE.

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Vendors I Love: ALLISON DAVIS of DAVIS ROW
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Vendors I Love: ALLISON DAVIS of DAVIS ROW

I met Allison Davis of DAVIS ROW a few years ago at a small wedding expo. Our paths continually cross, which is awesome because her positivity and enthusiasm are infectious. I have to fess up and say that I have yet to work with Allison, but gosh, I cannot wait for that to happen on an upcoming wedding ceremony. Last year, she introduced me to one of her couples and explained the way she works and refers potential creative partners. I thought the process was detailed and smart and I was truly taken aback by Allison's care and integrity. Folks, she's undoubtedly an amazing advocate to have. Without further ado, here's ALLISON DAVIS!

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Vendors I Love: JAY McELFRESH EVENTS
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Vendors I Love: JAY McELFRESH EVENTS

Jay and I worked together a few years ago on a lovely ceremony at the Brooklyn Botanic Gardens. I appreciated the way he knew instinctively how to create mood and energy. I contact everyone involved in the ceremony ahead of time and touch base with them onsite to make sure we're on the same page. It was immediately clear that Jay had my back. He was prepared and ready, and more importantly was a team player. That support shines through as we all strive to make the day as seamless as possible. He's a pro. Without further ado, here's JAY McELFRESH!

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Vendors I Love: TORI THE ORGANIZER
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Vendors I Love: TORI THE ORGANIZER

I met Tori Cohen a few years ago in a women's networking group. She is so energetic and she SINGS! I tend to highlight folks from the wedding world, however, I thought it time to share those I recommend as part of my premarital counseling practice. It's super clear from the way Tori speaks about her work, that she loves what she does. Many of us hate to organize, so it's best to have someone in your corner that embraces the challenge. Without further ado, here's TORI THE ORGANIZER!

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Vendors I Love: SASCHA REINKING PHOTOGRAPHY
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Vendors I Love: SASCHA REINKING PHOTOGRAPHY

I met Sascha through his lovely wife and fellow officiant, Jackie Reinking. Together they make up #TeamReinking. In planning a gathering of NYC-based officiants, Jackie offered to host, and Sascha was there to lend a hand. I quickly found out that he not only makes a great hamburger, he also takes AMAZING photos. I love that he easily captures the love and excitement of his couples. He has a great eye for color and energy and that each and every photo is it's own love letter to NYC. Without further ado, I am so happy to share more about Sascha Reinking of SASCHA REINKING PHOTOGRAPHY!

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Vendors I Love: AMY SIMS PHOTOGRAPHY
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Vendors I Love: AMY SIMS PHOTOGRAPHY

I met Amy a few years ago working on a wedding up in Tarrytown. And then our paths kept crossing. I love her positive energy, and just as she mentions in feedback from a bride below, she's just so cheerful to be around. Every year, the folks at 501 Union open their doors to the industry for a week of co-working and collaboration. I was not only able to spend some time with Amy, but lucky enough to have her take my gorgeous new headshots! Without further ado, I'm happy to introduce Amy Sims of AMY SIMS PHOTOGRAPHY!

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Vendors I Love: TWO KINDRED EVENT PLANNERS
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Vendors I Love: TWO KINDRED EVENT PLANNERS

I met Alison a few years ago working on a wedding in Brooklyn. I was then honored to work with both Alison and Jonathan on a wedding at a 'super secret hotel' this past October. I love their attention to detail, their willingness to go the extra mile and just how easily they work together. They could certainly plan and execute an event on their own, but choose not to. And for their couples and clients they say, "why have one planner, when you can have two?" Without further ado, I'm proud to introduce you to JONATHAN STAMPER-HALPIN & ALISON SZLEIFER from TWO KINDRED EVENT PLANNERS!

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Vendors I Love: CAREY MACARTHUR PHOTOGRAPHY
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Vendors I Love: CAREY MACARTHUR PHOTOGRAPHY

I was honored to work with Carey on an intimate elopement in December. She recommended me to the couple and for that I am forever grateful. As a collaborator she has a super easy demeanor. She focuses in on the emotions swirling around the couple and captures connection between with grace. She has an amazing eye and truly documents love with genuine care and excitement. Without further ado, I'd love to introduce you to CAREY MACARTHUR!

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