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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!
The Power of Ritual
As a person who writes and performs wedding ceremonies, I understand the power of ritual. However, I have been talking rituals more and more with my counseling couples. Small gestures incorporated into our daily lives. Why? Because rituals turn the ordinary into something meaningful.
Vendors I Love: MEGAN & KENNETH
I met Megan & Kenneth working a super fun wedding a few years ago. I appreciate their amazing sensibility to just be there to capture the right image at the right time. I guess it’s helpful that they not only love marriage, but ARE MARRIED. Without further ado, beyond excited to shine some light on MEGAN & KENNETH!
Vendors I Love: NON-TRADITIONAL WEDDING DJs
I met Ben at a super special wedding a few years ago. I really appreciate how Ben and his team view the musical elements of all parts of a wedding and how passionate they are. And they make it easy for couples to work with them. Without further ado, I’m excited to shine a light onto BEN BOYLAN from NON-TRADITIONAL WEDDING DJs!
Vendors I Love: SPEECHLESS MUSIC
Needless to say the musicians or the DJ are super important to the ceremony. We work together to create a vibe, so I was appreciative of Scott’s communication ahead of time, and then the ensemble’s beautiful work on the day. Super excited to shine a little light on SCOTT KULMAN and the musicians with SPEECHLESS MUSIC!
ZEN WEDDINGS: 5 Tips to Ease Wedding Stress
According to a recent survey, 40% of couples said wedding planning was “extremely stressful. And this is for a day that's supposed to be full of JOY. Well, I’d love to help you ease that wedding stress! Here are 5 things you can start doing TODAY, to be a Zen Bride or Zen Groom.
5 MORE Reasons to do Premarital Counseling
If you’re newly engaged I’m sure you’re looking at some timelines and an ever-growing list of wedding planning tasks. I encourage you to take a moment to consider adding premarital counseling to the top of the list. Here are five benefits to digging deep with your partner before you say “I do.”
Vendors I Love: MORTON STREET EVENTS
I met Anita working for another planner, and I loved her positivity and the way she organized all of the details. So of course, I was so excited when she decided to go out on her own. Without further ado, here’s my interview with Anita Pandian from MORTON STREET EVENTS!
Vendors I Love: DENISE FASANELLO FLOWERS
I recently worked on wedding I did with Denise. I walked into the ceremony area and literally said, “wow!” I’m thrilled to turn the spotlight on her and celebrate her journey. Without further ado, here’s my interview with Denise from DENISE FASANELLO FLOWERS!
Vendors I Love: DJ DAVID MEDINA
I met David this past season on a super fun wedding in Brooklyn. He just exudes a feeling of confidence and experience. I cannot wait to work with David again. Without further ado, I’m proud to introduce DJ DAVID MEDINA!
Vendors I Love: LOLI EVENTS
I met Rachel at an industry event years ago and immediately loved her energy. We finally got to work together this season, and I saw her in action. Rachel (and her team!) had a quiet confidence. They were like little ninjas - making sure that everything was in place and on schedule with little fanfare. I am beyond excited to share a little light on RACHEL URBAN from LOLI EVENTS.
Premarital Counseling: 25 Questions for You and Your Partner
As you consider marriage with your partner, there may be lots of questions that come up. However, as a premarital counselor, I find that some couples do not know how to begin. Here's a list of 25 questions that I encourage you to discuss together. Is it everything you need to discuss? Heck, no. But it’s a start.
Wedding Affirmations to Keep You Calm
I hear over and over again from brides and grooms that wedding planning can be stressful or overwhelming. Using affirmations is certainly one way to counterbalance that negativity and remind yourselves what the heck you are doing it all for.
Wedding Yoga: THE CROWN CHAKRA
The crown chakra is considered to be the top of the chakra ladder. It connects you to the universe in the same way that the root chakra connects you to the Earth. Located at the top of the head, the crown chakra gives us access to higher states of consciousness as we open ourselves to what is beyond our personal preoccupations and visions. While most of the chakras are very physical, this one is super spiritual and ethereal.
8 Important Things to Remember Before Your Wedding Ceremony
While a lot of thought and planning goes into the wedding reception, the wedding ceremony is usually the first thing on your timeline. To make sure it all runs smoothly, don’t forget these 8 things as you plan your wedding ceremony.
Vendors I Love: BRI JOHNSON WEDDINGS
I met Bri a few months ago when one of her couples traveling from Germany was looking for an officiant. Bri was just so warm and thoughtful. She guided the couple and made them feel comfortable and special. Without further ado, I’m beyond excited to shine a little light onto BRI JOHNSON!
Vendors I Love: PETALS BY DANI
I met Dani attending a few WIPA meetings in New York. She was always so welcoming and friendly. However, once I started following her on Instagram, I saw how amazing talented she is. Dani’s strong sense of color and design were apparent in all of her work. Without further ado, I am excited to give some well-deserved attention to Dani Chou of PETALS BY DANI!
Vendors I Love: ARCH EVENTS
I met Monica as we talked about an upcoming fall wedding. As I got to know her, and saw the way she and Allyson worked, I knew that we shared similar thoughts about what we value in weddings. Without further ado, I’m so excited to shine a little light on Monica O’Connor and Allyson Horn of ARCH EVENTS!
Finding Calm Before You Walk Down the Aisle
You can be the calmest groom or bride, but as soon as you’re ready to walk down the aisle, there's a good chance that your nerves will start to take over. You can release the anxiety and start your walk with confidence by using some of these quick tips.
Vendors I Love: Lauren of THE GET TOGETHER EVENTS CO.
I first met Lauren a few years ago at The Love Union. I always appreciated her genuine quality and my gosh, is she FUN! Not only that, she’s really passionate about what she does, and I love that she continues to grow! Without further ado, I am so excited to shine some very well deserved light onto Lauren Schaefer from THE GET TOGETHER EVENTS CO.
Vendors I Love: PLUME and FLOURISH
I first met Caroline at the Whitney Museum. We worked on events together, but I had no idea that she was so talented in calligraphy. I saw her place cards first hand, and then I just started stalking on social media. Without further ado, let’s shine some well deserved light onto Caroline David from PLUME & FLOURISH!