Blog

The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!

Gratituesday 7.12.22 - Nothing to Complain About
Gratitudes Hope Mirlis Gratitudes Hope Mirlis

Gratituesday 7.12.22 - Nothing to Complain About

WhenI speak to my dad and asked how he is, he replies, “Nothing to complain about.” At first I found it a little odd, since it was new, but then I grew to love the intentionality of it all. We are a society of complainers. While I try to be positive and Zen, I can switch to ‘complaining’ as a default.

Read More
Gratituesday 6.21.22 - In the Know
Gratitudes Hope Mirlis Gratitudes Hope Mirlis

Gratituesday 6.21.22 - In the Know

I am a very curious person, and in my youth I needed to know EVERYTHING. As I’ve matured, I’ve realized that no, I really don’t. So now it’s a balance…deciding when it’s important to have and share information, and when it’s not.

Read More
Gratituesday 5.3.22 - My Body, My Choice
Gratitudes Hope Mirlis Gratitudes Hope Mirlis

Gratituesday 5.3.22 - My Body, My Choice

There have been so many advancements made over the last few years. But with the impending overturn of Roe v. Wade, it feels like we’re going backwards. I’ve seen a lot of rage and disappointment today. It’s important to counter that with a bit of good. Care to join me in my weekly lists?

Read More
Vendors I Love: PETALS BY DANI
Vendors I Love, Weddings Hope Mirlis Vendors I Love, Weddings Hope Mirlis

Vendors I Love: PETALS BY DANI

I met Dani attending a few WIPA meetings in New York. She was always so welcoming and friendly. However, once I started following her on Instagram, I saw how amazing talented she is. Dani’s strong sense of color and design were apparent in all of her work. Without further ado, I am excited to give some well-deserved attention to Dani Chou of PETALS BY DANI!

Read More
Gratituesday 4.5.22 - Behind Schedule
Gratitudes Hope Mirlis Gratitudes Hope Mirlis

Gratituesday 4.5.22 - Behind Schedule

I am not really sure where the day has gone. I felt behind most of the day, and had the feeling of playing catch up. It was important for me to reflect and create my weekly lists. A bit of gratitude, celebration and desires for the future. Care to join me? The comment section is always open to question, encourage or share your OWN list. Let’s go!

Read More
Vendors I Love: ARCH EVENTS
Weddings, Vendors I Love Hope Mirlis Weddings, Vendors I Love Hope Mirlis

Vendors I Love: ARCH EVENTS

I met Monica as we talked about an upcoming fall wedding. As I got to know her, and saw the way she and Allyson worked, I knew that we shared similar thoughts about what we value in weddings. Without further ado, I’m so excited to shine a little light on Monica O’Connor and Allyson Horn of ARCH EVENTS!

Read More
Gratituesday  3.8.22 - Pause for Gratitude
Gratitudes Hope Mirlis Gratitudes Hope Mirlis

Gratituesday 3.8.22 - Pause for Gratitude

I have an extremely busy week this week. I could have easily avoided my weekly lists, however usually when things get crazy, it’s helpful to remember the good. Care to join me? Awesome! I’m happy to go first. The comment section below is always open to share. Off we go!

Read More
Gratituesday 2.22.22 - Connection & Numbers
Gratitudes Hope Mirlis Gratitudes Hope Mirlis

Gratituesday 2.22.22 - Connection & Numbers

When I saw TWO 2 heavy dates in Februay, I thought the inquiries for wedding would just flow in. For the most part things were quiet. Until 2 weeks ago when one of my 2020 couples resurfaced. The 2020 bride was into numerology and wanted to see if I was available on 2/22/22. Sure am, I said!

Read More
Guest Post: The Case for Embracing Self-Care
Healthy Living Dominique Padurano Healthy Living Dominique Padurano

Guest Post: The Case for Embracing Self-Care

My life was missing a key leavening agent since the start of COVID. I’d been living devoid of FUN, especially during the cold weather.  As a recovering Type-A personality who loves being outdoors in warm weather, it was often easier to just work through winter. So, I decided to purposefully dedicate myself to HAVE MORE FUN in 2022, especially right away.

Read More
Gratituesday 2.15.22 - Return to Celebration
Gratitudes Hope Mirlis Gratitudes Hope Mirlis

Gratituesday 2.15.22 - Return to Celebration

My weekly lists used to be gratitudes, celebrations and desires. Then for some reason, I changed the celebrations to VICTORIES. For the life of me I didn’t remember why I did it, but today I bring it back. This of course brings lots of reflection, and then my Weekly Lists basically write themselves. Care to join me?

Read More
Vendors I Love: Lauren of THE GET TOGETHER EVENTS CO.
Weddings, Vendors I Love Hope Mirlis Weddings, Vendors I Love Hope Mirlis

Vendors I Love: Lauren of THE GET TOGETHER EVENTS CO.

I first met Lauren a few years ago at The Love Union. I always appreciated her genuine quality and my gosh, is she FUN! Not only that, she’s really passionate about what she does, and I love that she continues to grow! Without further ado, I am so excited to shine some very well deserved light onto Lauren Schaefer from THE GET TOGETHER EVENTS CO.

Read More
Gratituesday 2.1.22 - Year of the Tiger
Gratitudes Hope Mirlis Gratitudes Hope Mirlis

Gratituesday 2.1.22 - Year of the Tiger

The Lunar New Year is seen as a time of reunion and rebirth. So, it’s another chance to bring luck, vitality and happiness into the coming year. And that of course, means a little reflection and my weekly lists. Want to join me? The comment section is always open to share. Let’s go!

Read More
Vendors I Love: PLUME and FLOURISH
Vendors I Love, Weddings Hope Mirlis Vendors I Love, Weddings Hope Mirlis

Vendors I Love: PLUME and FLOURISH

I first met Caroline at the Whitney Museum. We worked on events together, but I had no idea that she was so talented in calligraphy. I saw her place cards first hand, and then I just started stalking on social media. Without further ado, let’s shine some well deserved light onto Caroline David from PLUME & FLOURISH!

Read More