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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!

Gratituesday 7.27.21- Consider the Good
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Gratituesday 7.27.21- Consider the Good

I ask my counseling couples about their strongest beliefs about themselves and the world. Usually the personal thoughts are pretty positive. However, their beliefs about the world…those are rather grim. Therefore, it’s important to consider the good.

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Gratituesday 6.29.21 - Closing Doors, Opening Doors
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Gratituesday 6.29.21 - Closing Doors, Opening Doors

I was going to title this post, The End of an Era, but that felt a little much. There are lots of endings right now, but of an ERA? I don’t think so. At least not until COVID is officially behind us. However that doesn’t mean there isn’t a ton of activity. Closing doors and opening doors.

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How to be a Zen Bride: PLAN FOR THE FUTURE

How to be a Zen Bride: PLAN FOR THE FUTURE

Are you ready for the day AFTER your wedding? The wedding is special, but it's only one day. Marriage is hopefully for life. So I invite you to take a pause from planning to prepare for your marriage. I promise that if you know what’s important to you both and feel empowered as a team, you will find Zen and ease as you plan your Big Day.

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Gratituesday 6.8.21 - The Power of Kindness
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Gratituesday 6.8.21 - The Power of Kindness

I joined my friends Jenny and Meg for the middle week of their almost 3-week Kindness Tour up the eastern seaboard. I’ve never traveled in an RV, and I’d never been to Maine. Honestly, I didn’t know what to expect.

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Vendors I Love: Bree Swartz of BLOSSOM EVENTS
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Vendors I Love: Bree Swartz of BLOSSOM EVENTS

I met Bree working on a wedding few years ago and I really appreciated her gentle care of the couple and collaborative approach. While Blossom Events has grown over the last few years, I really want to give a shout out to their amazing leader. Without further ado, I’m excited to shine a light on BREE SWARTZ!

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Wedding Yoga: THE SACRAL CHAKRA
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Wedding Yoga: THE SACRAL CHAKRA

I refer to the chakras regularly in my yoga classes. In fact, they are the foundation of my wedding yoga practice. Yes, they can be a little ‘out there,’ but I have seen some a-ha moments using them with even some of my premarital counseling couples. Today I’m talking about the second chakra - Svadhisthana.

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Gratituesday 4.27.21 - Releasing Expectation
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Gratituesday 4.27.21 - Releasing Expectation

I was always a great yoga teacher for beginners, because I mastered the beginner poses. Things shifted when I realized that I could teach things I couldn’t do. I was able to release the expectation of my teaching practice and challenge my students in new and different ways. It should come as no surprise that it’s not always possible to practice what you preach.

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Gratituesday 4.13.21 - Peace and Quiet
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Gratituesday 4.13.21 - Peace and Quiet

New York City is loud! When the city went into lock down last March, it was so strange to see images of usually busy locations totally empty. There was peace and quiet, and it was disconcerting. A year later, the city is back to its regular bustle. People are out and about, and it’s noisy again!

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Wedding Yoga: The ROOT CHAKRA
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Wedding Yoga: The ROOT CHAKRA

I don’t remember when I first encountered the chakras, but I use them regularly in my yoga classes. In fact, they are the foundation of my wedding yoga practice. Let’s cut through the ‘woo-woo’ and get acquainted from the bottom to the top - starting with THE ROOT.

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Vendors I Love: SB BEAUTY
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Vendors I Love: SB BEAUTY

I met Sharon as fellow members of the New York City WIPA chapter, as well as when I occasionally visited her BNI chapter. You could always hear her excitement, passion and skill when she spoke about her business. Without further ado, I’m happy to spotlight, Sharon Becker of SB Beauty!

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Wedding Ceremonies: CEREMONY PROGRAMS
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Wedding Ceremonies: CEREMONY PROGRAMS

One of my Fall couples just reached out to talk about the logistics of their wedding. They wanted to know about the sequence of a ceremony because they are considering adding a Ceremony Program. They wanted to get my thoughts, so here’s what I told them.

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