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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!

Gratituesday 2.15.22 - Return to Celebration
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Gratituesday 2.15.22 - Return to Celebration

My weekly lists used to be gratitudes, celebrations and desires. Then for some reason, I changed the celebrations to VICTORIES. For the life of me I didn’t remember why I did it, but today I bring it back. This of course brings lots of reflection, and then my Weekly Lists basically write themselves. Care to join me?

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Vendors I Love: Lauren of THE GET TOGETHER EVENTS CO.
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Vendors I Love: Lauren of THE GET TOGETHER EVENTS CO.

I first met Lauren a few years ago at The Love Union. I always appreciated her genuine quality and my gosh, is she FUN! Not only that, she’s really passionate about what she does, and I love that she continues to grow! Without further ado, I am so excited to shine some very well deserved light onto Lauren Schaefer from THE GET TOGETHER EVENTS CO.

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Gratituesday 2.1.22 - Year of the Tiger
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Gratituesday 2.1.22 - Year of the Tiger

The Lunar New Year is seen as a time of reunion and rebirth. So, it’s another chance to bring luck, vitality and happiness into the coming year. And that of course, means a little reflection and my weekly lists. Want to join me? The comment section is always open to share. Let’s go!

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Vendors I Love: PLUME and FLOURISH
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Vendors I Love: PLUME and FLOURISH

I first met Caroline at the Whitney Museum. We worked on events together, but I had no idea that she was so talented in calligraphy. I saw her place cards first hand, and then I just started stalking on social media. Without further ado, let’s shine some well deserved light onto Caroline David from PLUME & FLOURISH!

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Victory Thursday 1.20.22 - Inspiration
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Victory Thursday 1.20.22 - Inspiration

Winter is hard for many people. At least for me, I lack inspiration. In yesterday’s book club meeting on Zoom, we were asked to change our displayed names and include our inspiration level from 1 to 10. I rated myself a 7. I am getting things done, but I am not hugely inspired.

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Gratituesday 1.4.22 - Isolation
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Gratituesday 1.4.22 - Isolation

It feels like everyone has covid right now. Okay, not everyone, but if I was a betting woman, I’d put money on the fact that everyone I know knows at least 1 person with covid right now. I personally know 3. That means that people are quarantining and/or in isolation. And isolation is so damaging as we as a society crave socialization.

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Desire Wednesday 12.15.21 - Deepening Connection
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Desire Wednesday 12.15.21 - Deepening Connection

I think many of us have been in this weird limbo for a while now. Staying to ourselves and not deepening relationships. I avoid stepping out of my little bubble and maybe I use the ‘covid excuse’ a little too much. So, 2022 will be the year of Deepening Connection. Perhaps meeting new people, and of course, reconnecting with folks I already know - EVERY DAY.

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Taking time to SLOW DOWN
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Taking time to SLOW DOWN

After a year of go, go, go, I decided it was time to be intentional and SLOW DOWN. Sure, I add a ton of Zen to my business and daily practice, but for the most part I value productivity. It's really difficult to do nothing, and I get frustrated if I don't have a list of completed to-dos at the end of the day. Does that sound like you, too?

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Why Hire a Professional Officiant?
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Why Hire a Professional Officiant?

Ask any wedding planner, photographer, or DJ whether they prefer to work with a family friend or a professional officiant and they will tell you the same thing: definitely hire a professional. 

Here’s why.

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Desire Wednesday 9.8.21 - Choices and Trade-offs
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Desire Wednesday 9.8.21 - Choices and Trade-offs

Every September my nose starts running, and my mouth gets itchy. I forget that I have fall allergies every year and think I am sick. Of course, in this time of COVID, I think that even though I’ve been careful, I finally caught the virus. It’s just seasonal allergies, folks. Once the first frost hits, it all goes away!

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Desire Wednesday 8.11.21 - Curveballs
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Desire Wednesday 8.11.21 - Curveballs

I’ve been thrown a lot of curve balls lately. It would be easy for me to just power down. However I’ve decided that the best way through a problem is right through. Well, that and tons of direct communication, being open to creative solutions and releasing perfection.

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